Hi. I’m dropping into your inbox over the weekend with a different kind of offering.
To those of you who come here only for news, this may not be for you. We’ll back in your inbox with hard news on Monday!
To the many others who’ve reached out telling me you need community and are struggling with in-person connection, I hope you find this helpful.
Andrea Bendewald is a friend and the founder of The Art of Circling. Circling is a way of gathering that involves sharing your story and deep listening without judgment. In the first half of the conversation we talk about the benefits of circling. In the second half, Andrea explains how to start a circle in your own community.
Last year I joined a circle Andrea facilitates and I’ve found it to be nourishing in a way that’s different from other social experiences. It brought new friends into my life; it brought me closer to people I’d known in a more superficial way; and most of all, it brought me comfort because I felt heard and not judged after sharing about topics that were challenging for me.
One note: in the conversation we sometimes talk about circling with other women. While this is a practice women have used for years, it is also used by men and in mixed gender groups. Anyone who cares to share can do it!
Andrea offers training in circling and can facilitate circles for others. For that, you can reach her at the Art of Circling. You can also listen to her podcast, Circle This and follow her on Instagram.
I know that these days many of you feel that the proverbial “village” is lacking. We’ll schedule another group Zoom soon. Please let me know what else we can offer to help you find the resources and connection you need.
And thank you
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I loved this conversation!
Thank you - this was inspiring and healing. Grateful to you, Jessica and Andrea
Perfect conversation, perfect timing. Thank you!
Excellent! I am inspired to try organizing a circle. Thank you for offering this resource!
This is perfect thank you-can't wait to listen